Master Lu, how do we resolve \u201cpredestined conflicts\u201d\u2014 conflicts between couples or conflicts in marriage? We follow the instruction of your Buddhist practice\u2014 Guan Yin Citta Dharma Door\u2014to recite sutras and mantras. But I still cannot wrap my head around the issue.
\nI recite the Mantra to Untie Karmic Knots every day, but still hope that you could give us a clear solution to this problem. \u201cPredestined conflicts\u201d in relationships can be damaging, as I\u2019ve seen many couples around me breaking up because of them.<\/p>\n
\u201cPredestined conflicts\u201d between married couples do exist. If the result of fortune-telling confirms that a husband and his wife are in conflict based on both their birth dates, you could consider employing the following methods to resolve the conflict:<\/p>\n
\n\u2022 First, it\u2019s recommended that the couple sleep in different rooms.<\/p>\n
\n\u2022 Each person should recite the Mantra to Untie Karmic Knots 21 or 49 times per day to resolve their karmic conflicts.<\/p>\n
\n\u2022 The rate of effectiveness for resolving a couple\u2019s conflicts by reciting the following sutras and mantras could be around 50% (results vary from person to person):
\no Recite the Heart Sutra for each other 7 or 21 times per day.
\no Recite the Eighty-Eight Buddhas Great Repentance to repent and eliminate the karmic obstacles that lead to the conflict in marriage or in a relationship.<\/p>\n
\n\u2022 If the situation has not been turned around after practising all the above-mentioned methods for quite some time, you will need to recite Little Houses for each other. Address the Little Houses to the \u201cKarmic Creditor of <your partner\u2019s name>\u201d. You can recite more Little Houses if necessary.<\/p>\n